{"body":[{"id":"46217450324230144","sort":"0","type":1,"role":"46216336032374643","content":"男友三個(gè)多月杳無音訊，若蘭一開始不以為然，但現(xiàn)在感覺，每天生活乏味枯燥，如行尸走肉一般，所以今天約了閨蜜，下班后一起吃頓飯，聊聊天。"},{"id":"46217450324230145","sort":"1024","type":1,"role":"46216669445991316","content":"這么長(zhǎng)時(shí)間，他就像人間蒸發(fā)了一樣。"},{"id":"46217450324230146","sort":"2048","type":1,"role":"46216712378876628","content":"你們最后一次見面是什么時(shí)候？"},{"id":"46217450324230147","sort":"3072","type":1,"role":"46216669445991316","content":"去年12月圣誕節(jié)"},{"id":"46217450324230148","sort":"4096","type":1,"role":"46216669445991316","content":"在我家附近，我們吃完晚飯，一起去看了電影，之后我們散步，一起回家。"},{"id":"46217450324230149","sort":"5120","type":1,"role":"46216712378876628","content":"之后呢"},{"id":"46217450324230150","sort":"6144","type":1,"role":"46216669445991316","content":"我們邊走邊聊，我跟他說，春節(jié)的時(shí)候，我希望他來我家，見一下我的父母。"},{"id":"46217450324230151","sort":"7168","type":1,"role":"46216669445991316","content":"在我家玩幾天之后，我和他一起去他的老家，我也見一下他的父母。"},{"id":"46217450324230152","sort":"8192","type":1,"role":"46216712378876628","content":"這是要談婚論嫁的節(jié)奏了嗎？"},{"id":"46217450324230153","sort":"9216","type":1,"role":"46216669445991316","content":"我是很認(rèn)真的對(duì)待這份感情，我相信他也是真心愛我的。"},{"id":"46217450324230154","sort":"10240","type":1,"role":"46216669445991316","content":"但是他不同意，他覺得一切太快了。"},{"id":"46217450324230155","sort":"11264","type":1,"role":"46216712378876628","content":"好吧，是不是你太心急，把他給嚇跑了？"},{"id":"46217450324230156","sort":"12288","type":1,"role":"46216669445991316","content":"哎…"},{"id":"46217450324230157","sort":"13312","type":1,"role":"46216669445991316","content":"他不同意我還能怎么辦呢？雖然我很不開心，但我也沒有再說什么了。"},{"id":"46217450324230158","sort":"14336","type":1,"role":"46216669445991316","content":"其實(shí)這不是我們第1次談?wù)撨@件事情了，之前的兩次，也是因?yàn)樗f一切太早而不了了之。"},{"id":"46217450324230159","sort":"15360","type":1,"role":"46216712378876628","content":"我覺得吧，見家長(zhǎng)這個(gè)事兒，真的不能操之過急。"},{"id":"46217450324230160","sort":"16384","type":1,"role":"46216712378876628","content":"他有可能是因?yàn)閴毫μ?，躲起來了，等他冷靜過來了，就好了。"},{"id":"46217450324230161","sort":"17408","type":1,"role":"46216669445991316","content":"一開始我也反思過自己，當(dāng)時(shí)他送我到家樓下，我叫他晚上留下陪我，他答應(yīng)了。"},{"id":"46217450324230162","sort":"18432","type":1,"role":"46216669445991316","content":"但是晚上，他一直翻來覆去睡不著。雖然我躺著一動(dòng)不動(dòng)，但這些我都看在眼里。"},{"id":"46217450324230163","sort":"19456","type":1,"role":"46216669445991316","content":"我也很自責(zé)，跟他說，不要放在心上，見家長(zhǎng)的事以后再說。"},{"id":"46217450324230164","sort":"20480","type":1,"role":"46216712378876628","content":"聽起來，你處理的也沒有什么問題呀"},{"id":"46217450324230165","sort":"21504","type":1,"role":"46216712378876628","content":"那后來你們就再也沒有聯(lián)系了？"},{"id":"46217450324230166","sort":"22528","type":1,"role":"46216669445991316","content":"是的，第2天我們各自去上班，之后就再也沒聯(lián)絡(luò)過"},{"id":"46217450324230167","sort":"23552","type":1,"role":"46216712378876628","content":"打他電話呢？"},{"id":"46217450324230168","sort":"24576","type":1,"role":"46216669445991316","content":"一直在線，可能是把我拉黑了吧"},{"id":"46217450324230169","sort":"25600","type":1,"role":"46216712378876628","content":"微信？"},{"id":"46217450324230170","sort":"26624","type":1,"role":"46216669445991316","content":"一開始我給他發(fā)消息，他不回復(fù)"},{"id":"46217450324230171","sort":"27648","type":1,"role":"46216669445991316","content":"后來我，語音，視頻，他都不理我"},{"id":"46217450324230172","sort":"28672","type":1,"role":"46216669445991316","content":"最后，微信也把我拉黑了"},{"id":"46217450324230173","sort":"29696","type":1,"role":"46216712378876628","content":"怎么這樣??？"},{"id":"46217450324230174","sort":"30720","type":1,"role":"46216712378876628","content":"太奇怪了"},{"id":"46217450324230175","sort":"31744","type":1,"role":"46216712378876628","content":"那你知道他在哪上班嗎？"},{"id":"46217450324230176","sort":"32768","type":1,"role":"46216669445991316","content":"知道，我去他的公司找過了，同事說他已經(jīng)離職了。"},{"id":"46217450324230177","sort":"33792","type":1,"role":"46216712378876628","content":"啊？"},{"id":"46217450324230178","sort":"34816","type":1,"role":"46216669445991316","content":"我還去了他住的地方"},{"id":"46217450324230179","sort":"35840","type":1,"role":"46216669445991316","content":"守了好幾天，后來還是鄰居告訴我，他已經(jīng)搬家了"},{"id":"46217450324230180","sort":"36864","type":1,"role":"46216712378876628","content":"我的天吶！這人……"},{"id":"46217450324230181","sort":"37888","type":1,"role":"46216669445991316","content":"我也不知道我到底做錯(cuò)了什么，如果僅僅是因?yàn)橐娂议L(zhǎng)的問題，也不至于這樣對(duì)我吧？"},{"id":"46217450324230182","sort":"38912","type":1,"role":"46216712378876628","content":"你也別太難過，雖然我知道你們?cè)谡剳賽?，但你也很少跟我談起?},{"id":"46217450324230183","sort":"39936","type":1,"role":"46216712378876628","content":"你覺得他性格怎么樣呢？"},{"id":"46217450324230184","sort":"40960","type":1,"role":"46216669445991316","content":"他人挺好的，我們真的無話不說，我感覺他是我遇到的最懂我的人呢"},{"id":"46217450324230185","sort":"41984","type":1,"role":"46216669445991316","content":"他性格是有點(diǎn)內(nèi)向，但是跟我在一起的時(shí)候，很活潑，也很有幽默感"},{"id":"46217450324230186","sort":"43008","type":1,"role":"46216669445991316","content":"只是在陌生人面前，不善言談"},{"id":"46217450324230187","s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